My Online “boyfriend”?
So my "boyfriend" I guess I'll call him that even though it's not technically official and doubt it ever will be - my reasoning being after this message.
We've been planning on meeting for many months. But, recently has been very distant from me due to being extremely stressed over the Christmas period which caused us to have a major fall out just before the new year. Anyhow in these weeks of us not speaking much he has got extremely close to another girl. He speaks/hangs out with A LOT and every time he goes offline she goes off a minute or 2 after and I've often noticed that they go AFK at the same time for long periods. I asked if he liked her in that way and he said no and accused me of being jealous. I'm having serious doubts that he is telling the truth as he never wants to spend any time with me whatsoever but it seems he always has time for her even when he is busy.
At first I thought I was just being paranoid but it all add's up why else would they hang out so much and he treating her a lot better than he does me?
I've asked him so many times to tell me if he doesn't like me any more and he'll say he does...
our conversation is limited especially from his side and nothing really comes from it. I want to try speaking to him personally about 'him and I' but it's so difficult as I feel like I might be walking on broken glass and I honestly wouldn't know how to speak to him about "us" e.g questions and such.
Not to be mean, but not everyone is what they seem. Yeah, he may be your age or whatever but does he really have feelings for you? It is possible that he was toying with your emotions… and likes that other girl. Just try and get some alone time with him and see what the big deal? Like why doesn’t he seem to want to hang out with you as much… and does he have any feelings for you… and does he have new feelings for her?