Whats The Problem With My Husband?
hes 32.good looking,very rich and famous.
he wrote happy birthday on my birthday on twitter when we were together that day in Bahamas.why did he do this?
in public and on twitter he always shows or maintains that hes such a family guy,hes a family man through and through.when I to watch him perform he kisses me in the crowds.that he says family time is so important and so valuable and he needs time with family so he took break from work for 3 weeks,and writing such things.i mean who is his family and then he cheats??
And then on twitter he keeps saying such nice things about me like I am back on twitter(as people had said horrible things to me so i left)showing my photo with friends on twitter that I went to a Saturday night show ,saying happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together,time needed to be with family after he took a break from work(everything on twitter)
Like spreading news that we are going to Bahamas for a family vacation when he took a break three weeks ago.on my birthday(11th Jan)but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday,instead wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together!
he loves our three year old daughter very much.though.and he wanted a baby desperately.
When in reality he was seen with a blond girl with whom he was cuddling from behind,had his arms on her chest and neck,kissing her head at an almost empty restaurant and was laughing and joking.enjoying himself thoroughly.
being pictured intimately with his close friend of 5 years(who is 7 years younger than him) then thrashed her publicly on radio for being a **** and the 10 men he knows.she slept with.and who she must be sleeping with while hes talking and was in a sexual affair with her other wise how did he know that she sleeps around when they were in different sections at their workplace?
the girl either cheated on him or called it off that's why he became berserk.i had seen him jump up and down in happiness at his work place which was understandable after the public out burst that maybe she got together with him and so he was extremely happy.
why is he acting like this?????
whats he trying to show???
he had a permanent reputation of a jerk a few years ago but claimed that changed after the birth of our 3 year old daughter but after his public outburst of his co worker's sex life it was evident that hes still the same.
when we got married i saw a pic of him with a blond sitting on his lap he was shirtless and showing the wedding ring to the camera even though he got my name tattooed on his arm!
before marriage he was desperate to have a child,had already fixed a baby name even before our marriage and loves getting photographed with his daughter.
why so much drama that hes a family guy when hes knows hes not except for the fact that he loves our daughter?
and does he love me?
we got married in 2007.
we met at a bar in 2004 where he saw me saying love at first sight,and asked for my phone number.
i gave it to him saying if you can memorize it then call and then he called and we started dating but amidst all this he was never committed.every time infatuated with blondes yet wanted a child desperately as no one was ready to date him because of his bad nature and ill treatment of women when they rejected him.earlier before marriage he would hold hands in public,kiss in front of his friends but he would continue cheating too.
and now all this public show through twitter and repeated cheating.
whats =his real deal?
Dear madam, Think of all these queries, & answer without any pride, prejudice, or partiality:
the way i understood,you have:
1. A sudden marriage with a guy whom u met first. As he wanted, you obliged, & the result is a baby. now he has left , or shown that he has several girls in his life, & this is least acceptable for you[ almost all the girls, or housewives !] Now he has shown his lac of continuity, or consistency, still , why & how u are after him?
2. The fact that he had several girls, & his ‘family holiday’ does not require u, or ur presence, why u should respect, or love him, if at all ?
3. Are you after his public expressions of love, kisses, riches, twitters, or his handsomeness ?
4. Even after a bitter taste of of all these- apparent love, unpredictable & negative behaviour, [to u & the 'badly needed baby!] his s- called love is only a shadow !! This he has proved, so as an intelligent girl[at this young age, this type of guys are NOT meant for you & your sincerity. Still you want to continue this [already cut off from his side] love ?
If you are still for this, to continue, your surge of love overtakes u & it may make matters worse!
So treat this properly, behave more maturely in selecting any future relationships with more analysis, before plunging into a marriage .
Take up a job,, conentrate on it as well as the baby, so that you can [& will] forget this experience.
GOOD LUCK
It is problem with you that you are not tolerating the extra-marital relations which he always enjoys.He loves you but want some space and time for the extra -marital connections?Accept it to keep happy married life?